He Chose Me — Which, Honestly, Just Proves His Good Taste.

Why Me? I Mean, I Know I’m Pretty Great — But It’s Always Fun to Hear Someone List All the Reasons Why.

We all want to feel special. To know we matter. To feel chosen. But sometimes, it’s hard to understand why someone picks us. I mean, obviously, I’m amazing, but still — why me?

I used to overthink this a lot. Maybe I was just so incredibly different from his exes that he couldn’t fall for me. Or perhaps he had been through enough relationship disasters to finally appreciate someone as flawless as me. Or — plot twist — maybe he was bored and thought, Eh, why not?

At some point, people stop chasing chaos and start wanting something real (shocking, right?). But since I’m not a mind reader (tragic, I know), I decided to just ask him why he picked me.

And, wow, what a confidence boost.

He said he loves that I’m always there for him — whether he’s thriving or having a full-on meltdown. Adorable. He also loves that we can joke around, which is great because my humor is obviously top-tier. And apparently, he likes it when my usual independence magically disappears, and I get all needy. Who knew being clingy could be so attractive?

Oh, and get this — he thinks I’m beautiful. Shocking. But even better, he said my personality is why he’s here. I mean, duh. My charm is irresistible. He loves my quirks (because let’s be honest, I’m basically a delightful human cartoon), he loves our debates (translation: I win, he pretends it was a discussion), and he thinks my ability to go from deep conversation to absolute nonsense in five seconds is endearing rather than concerning.

Here’s the thing — sometimes, we forget to see ourselves the way the people who love us do. We get stuck in our heads, thinking, What if I’m not enough? What if they find someone better? (Which is hilarious because how can he possibly do better?)

So yeah, I have doubts sometimes, but I know I’m great. I mean, come on. I’m funny, fun, a snack-ordering pro, and I can hold a conversation that flips between philosophical and utterly absurd in under 30 seconds. What’s not to love? (No, really. Tell me. I’ll wait.)

That’s what I remind myself when doubt creeps in. And if you ever feel like you’re not someone’s first choice, I totally get it. That feeling sucks. But here’s the thing — the right person won’t be sitting there thinking, maybe I should weigh my options. Nope. They’ll just know. And they’ll keep choosing you every single day.

And if those annoying doubts don’t shut up, talk to someone — a friend, a therapist, or even your partner. Because feeling insecure doesn’t make you weak — it just makes you a normal person with a functioning brain.

At the end of the day, love isn’t about convincing someone to pick you. It’s about realizing that they already did. And honestly? Great choice.