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<p>When It’s Hard to Play Hard to Get — Read This! Photo by Vince Fleming on Unsplash Did you ever feel like you were just too easy for a boy you had a crush on? Was it downright cringeworthy? Of course, it is; in my mind, I always question myself — Why did I ever do that? Why did<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2025/02/10/i-was-too-easy-for-a-boy-i-had-a-crush-on/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">&#8220;I Was Too Easy for a B

<p>Every cringe moment of mine, living in my head rent-free and waiting to be triggered again, haunts me, fills me with angst, and makes me want to punch myself. Photo by ian dooley on Unsplash “Does anyone remember about my cringe moment?” “This thing not just happened to me, right?” “Does anyone else feel the same as<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/02/12/my-anxietys-begging-for-a-shovel-to-bury-those-cringe-memories-six-feet-under/">Cont

<p>Discovering what my family does that reminded me how much my family loves me. Photo by Tyler Nix on Unsplash I was feeling like a lone wolf, totally disconnected from my pack. But then, boom! I discovered something that melted my icy heart and reminded me how much my family loves me. Caught Dad’s phone doing some<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/02/11/i-was-wrong-my-family-loves-me-unconditionally/">Continue reading <span class="screen-r

<p>How I Went from Thinking &#8220;I&#8217;m Not Like Other Girls&#8221; Made Me Cool to Realizing I Was Just Unbearable — And Why Embracing My Inner Basic Queen Was the Best Decision Ever. Photo by Kenny Eliason on Unsplash I used to be a pick-me girl — fully convinced that being &#8220;not like other girls&#8221; made me special. I&#8217;d roll my eyes<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/02/10/how-i-stopped-trying-to-be-different-and-realize

<p>Quarter-Life Crisis or Just a Plot Twist? Figuring It Out One Day at a Time. Source: Kicauanuri I turned 23 and decided to get myself a cake that said, “Enjoy your quarter-life crisis.” At the time, it was just a joke. It turns out the joke was on me because, well… here I am, smack in<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/06/01/enjoying-my-quarter-life-crisis/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">&#8220;Enjoying My Quarter-Life

<p>Why Me? I Mean, I Know I’m Pretty Great — But It’s Always Fun to Hear Someone List All the Reasons Why. Photo by Elena Mozhvilo on Unsplash We all want to feel special. To know we matter. To feel chosen. But sometimes, it’s hard to understand why someone picks us. I mean, obviously, I’m amazing, but still — why me?<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/05/23/he-chose-me-which-honestly-just-proves-his-good-taste/">Continue reading <span class=

<p>It’s not a love letter; it’s a confession I haven’t gotten to tell them. Photo by Debby Hudson on Unsplash I was madly in love with them back then, but this isn’t a love letter because I write it without feelings of love. It’s just a confession that I haven’t gotten to tell them. The older I<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/05/22/to-all-the-boys-ive-loved-before/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">&#8220;To All the Boys I

<p>Photo by Les Anderson on Unsplash Kisah Kasih Kalung Imitasi, dan Binder Harvest. Cinta monyet adalah hal terindah dan ter-absurd yang pernah gue alami. Waktu itu gue kelas 3 SD. Cewek pinter berambut pendek dengan muka biasa aja. Gue ga pernah ngebayangin bakal ada yang suka sama gue, in romanticly. Namanya Ari. Cowok manis, kurus, tinggi semampai,<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2022/09/21/cinta-monyet/">Continue reading <span class="scree