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<p>Discover how two simple terms tell the story of women’s roles and rights in Indonesia’s history. Source: Kicauanuri ‘Wanita’ and ‘Perempuan’ have the same meaning when referring to women. However, their origins and the distinct meanings they have developed over various periods of leadership in Indonesia make this discussion significant. Understanding the history behind these<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2025/01/20/perempuan-vs-wanita-term

<p>Different Relationships, Honest Conversations, and Finding Your Person. Photo by kabita Darlami on Unsplash Looking for “the one” is a personal journey with no guarantees, and I’ve learned a lot about what I’m looking for. Here’s the thing: I’ve learned much over the past few years about what I’m looking for. I’ve discovered that dating in this<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/03/13/modern-dating-decoded-finding-the-one-in-a-world-of-opt

<p>How Emotional Pain Shapes Lives and the Path to Healing. Photo by Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 on Unsplash Trauma is more frequent than people believe, and it is not just a clinical phrase. It is our emotional response to life’s most difficult situations. Accidents, traumatic incidents, and natural calamities are among examples. They shook us to our<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/02/18/riding-the-emotional-rollercoaster-the-reality-of-traum

<p>&#8220;Pulling off dirty tricks takes two to tango—cunning and shameless individuals.&#8221; —Dirty Vote (Full Movie) Photo by Dirty Vote (Full Movie) on YouTube Three top legal minds—Zainal Arifin Mochtar, Bivitri Susanti, and Feri Amsari—are pulling back the curtain in Dirty Vote. This documentary exposes how political power is being used (and abused) to win elections and<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/02/13/formulating-such-dirty-sc

<p>Build a Page That Attracts, Engages, and Keeps Customers Coming Back. Photo by Kenny Eliason on Unsplash A strong online presence is like having a cool tent in a busy marketplace. People wander by, check out your stuff, and might even step inside to see what you’re all about. Facebook is like a giant digital market; your<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/02/01/build-the-brand-on-digital-market-a-guide-to-mastering-facebook/">Continue read

<p>When a secretary’s idea is stolen by her boss, she seizes an opportunity to steal it back by pretending she has her boss’ job. Source: Working Girl (1988) Film: Working Girl. Year: 1988. Genre: Comedy/Drama/Romance. Rating: R. Director: Mike Nichols Forget glass slippers — this Cinderella is strutting into the office in Louboutins, ready to take on Wall Street.<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2024/01/11/i-have-a-head-for-business-and-a-bod-f

<p>How to Keep Your Online Life Private Without Confusion, Slow Speeds, or Tech Jargon. Photo by Petter Lagson on Unsplash Data privacy in today’s online jungle is as rare as a unicorn. Every click leaves a digital footprint. Malicious actors lurk around every corner, eager to snatch your information. That’s where Virtual Private Networks (VPNs) come in.<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/12/21/level-up-your-online-privacy-the-2023-vpn-guide-

<p>Navigating Confidence Without Letting It Run the Show. Photo by Orkun Azap on Unsplash The ego — that little voice in our heads that hypes us up but can also trip us up — plays a significant role, especially in our twenties when we’re still figuring stuff out. It’s a mixed bag, helping us chase our goals while sometimes complicating life.<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/11/30/keeping-your-ego-in-check-striking-the-right-balance/">Contin

<p>Easy, Down-to-Earth Tips to Help You Stay Chill, Keep Your Sanity, and Handle Whatever Life Throws Your Way Without Feeling Overwhelmed. Photo by Nik on Unsplash Life can be a lot sometimes; that feels like a never-ending to-do list, and stress creeps in. However, staying calm isn’t about having some superhuman zen powers. It’s about little<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/11/28/coping-mechanisms-for-stressful-situations/">Continue readi

<p>When Prince Charming Solves Everything — Except Himself. Photo by Lydia Turner on Unsplash Disney has always loved a good story where a woman’s life magically improves the second a big, strong man shows up. Maybe Disney was onto something — except once all her problems are solved, the only thing left to deal with is… the big, strong man. For<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/06/06/happily-ever-after-such-as-princess-disney/">Continue read

<p>Early marriage isn&#8217;t about happily ever after, like we used to be told, honey. It can be rough, like REALLY rough. Photo by Scott Webb on Unsplash I always wanted to become a princess sleeping beauty when I was little. I mean, this bitch just sleeps, waits for the prince goddamn charming to come fucking over, and<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/06/04/the-glorification-of-early-marriage-in-indonesia/">Continue reading <span class="

<p>How I Got Caught in a Sugar-Coated Illusion, Learned the Hard Way, and Finally Found the Taste of Truth. Photo by Taylor Deas-Melesh on Unsplash Life has this funny way of sneaking up on you. So unpredictable, right? You can be minding your own business, and suddenly, you’re tangled up in something you never saw coming. I<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/05/26/sweet-bullshit-became-though-bitter-in-me/">Continue reading <span class="scre

<p>Real Talk Guide to Embracing Healing, Self-Care, and New Beginnings. Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash I’m sorry you’re going through this. That kind of thing sucks, and I get it. I’ve been there too. It’s rough when things don’t go as planned, and it’s okay to feel all kinds of emotions right now. Breakups are<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/05/20/moving-on-one-step-at-a-time/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">&#8220;M

<p>Feminism is usually linked to women’s rights and tackling gender inequality. But it’s also key in pushing back against society’s harmful ideas about what being a man should be. Photo by Tom Pumford on Unsplash Since I was little, I started questioning little things around me. For example; “If I had parents and my parents had parents<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/05/19/feminism-the-lost-key-to-true-masculinity/">Continue reading <span

<p>More Than a Label — Why It’s Time to Change the Conversation. Photo by Deon Black on Unsplash Virginity has been a big deal in many cultures for ages, often tied to ideas of purity, honor, and social expectations — especially for women. In the past, losing it before marriage was looked down upon, with people linking it to morality<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2023/05/18/the-value-of-virginity/">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-

<p>The whole realm of sex and sexuality is just plain complicated in my culture. So, let’s talk about it, baby! Photo by Malvestida on Unsplash Kudos to those who’ve lived for 22 years without experiencing intimacy, myself included. Should I feel joy or sadness? I suppose it’s the 22nd phase when we all are happy, free, confused,<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2022/09/19/a-chill-chat-about-stuff-no-one-prepares-you-for/">Continue reading <span

<p>Understanding the fine line between genuine kindness and reading too much into it. Photo by Elena Mozhvilo on Unsplash Have you ever met someone who gives you enough attention to keep you interested but never clarifies their intentions? Yeah, those are what we now call “breadcrumbers.” They act like a friend, maybe even more than a friend,<a class="more-link" href="https://kicauanurimedia.wordpress.com/2022/09/19/are-you-a-victim-of-breadcrumbs-or-just-caught-up-in-your-fe